What makes the Dutch happy?

What makes the Dutch happy?

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Research shows that sustained happiness results from a high perceived level of stability and democracy. Micheala Smith looks further at the issue, with focus on expats' happiness in Holland.

In 2003, BBC World Service broadcast an interview with a professor from the University of Michigan who had devised a method of measuring happiness. Previous life satisfaction surveys tended to link circumstances such as income and marital status to feelings of well-being but the outcomes left the researchers with two major question marks. The first was the very small effect of circumstance on life satisfaction.

Self-reported happiness among the Japanese, for example, did not increase for more than thirty years though income increased fivefold over the same period. Also, following an initial high, lottery winning multi-millionaires were not significantly happier than a group of paraplegics. The second puzzle was a surprisingly large difference in life satisfaction in seemingly similar countries, even from one American state to the other.

The main finding of well-being studies, however, has been people's remarkable ability to adapt, even to extreme changes such as war or bereavement. Happiness and unhappiness seem to become neutralised over time. In turn, this is linked to people's aspirations – pleasure or pain is evaluated against one's hopes and dreams.

Trying to sidestep the above conundrum, the Michigan professor defined three paths to happiness –a life of pleasure, a life of engagement and a life of meaning. His research put the Dutch and the Scandinavians top of the global league table. But in the radio interview, he couldn't altogether pinpoint what makes for happiness. The climate? Well, no! Wealth had already been ruled out firmly. His conclusion, therefore, was that sustained happiness results from a high perceived level of stability and democracy.

Other surveys, too, seem to confirm this conclusion. The Unicef report "An Overview of Child Well-Being in Rich Countries" that came out in February 2007 put Dutch children as the self-reported happiest and British children as the unhappiest of 24 OECD countries. Yet Dutch children didn't, overall, possess more books or computers, go on holidays more frequently or have other clear material advantages over British children.

Now look at another statistic – that of teenage suicide rates. The Scandinavian countries and the Netherlands, the 'happy people' have seen a significant increase over the last two decades, in England and Wales (but not Scotland) the incidence has significantly decreased.

So, the question still is: What is it that makes the Dutch happy? To get a handle on this society and at the same time understand why it is so hard for expats to carve themselves a social life here, you should know that Dutch society is organised in 'pillars' (zuilen). Originally, the 'verzuiling' (to coin a new word, 'pillarification') was to do with religious denomination – belong to this church or that and you belong to such or so a social group. Broadcasting corporations were formed on the basis of religion – VPRO is protestant, KRO is catholic, EO is evangelist – and were allocated a share of the overall broadcast time on the public channels according to the numbers of their membership.

Political parties, too, were mostly denominational but only became a force to be reckoned with in 1980, when they merged into the CDA (Christian Democratic Appeal). Ever since, in 'my book', politics, policies and legislation have represented the centre, the average, the mediocre.

Over time, the pillars have shifted towards divisions of educational and professional attainment. The Netherlands has had a highly selective education system since at least 1968 (the 'Mammoth' Education Act). Given that the number one factor for educational success is a high parental educational attainment level (or conversely, the number one risk factor for school failure is a low parental attainment level), it's easy to see that the better-placed your parents are, the better you'll do in the selection.

So it is that politicians and journalists, virtually without exception, come from a privileged, elitist, sheltered background; that manual labourers beget manual labourers; that a future architect is not likely to meet a future bricklayer, let alone a coloured immigrant, and a future doctor is unlikely to know unemployment or hardship of any kind. In other words, Dutch children grow up and spend their entire lives with birds of a feather. They're not confronted with how the other half live. In fact, they tend to be blissfully ignorant of lifestyles, ambitions, norms and values other than their own.

In the UK, only one in seven children from a deprived background makes it through the ranks. In Holland, it's possible in theory to do so but it's an extremely long-winded process and increasingly less common in practice.

School selection, officially by competence but in real terms by social environment, is exacerbated by the stated objective of the Dutch education system - all children must leave school with a 'start qualification', meaning with a diploma that ensures employability. Of such overriding importance is the diploma, the job and the salary become that the unwritten purpose of an education system – producing socially responsible, aware, autonomous young adults – falls by the wayside. Instead, the system produces economic units, the workers of an ant colony.

If children of all shapes and sizes do not come into contact with each other, how will they ever learn respect for one another, learn to value the diversity that makes for the rich tapestry of life?

This is the context in which Dutch children self-profess happiness and 'connection' with their peers. As long as they stay within the safety of their pillar, they will have an excellent quality of life. From within, the pillar is perceived to be stable so they are free – and affluent enough - to pursue whatever definition they give to happiness. Yet the pillars, each with its own level of programming, inhibitions and restrictions, are also quite stifling. This, I think, might begin to explain the rising suicide rate.

The Expatica 'quality of life' survey enquired into air quality, schools, health care, public transportation and so forth. On the whole, I imagine, the sum total of such factors isn't notably better or worse in Holland than in other Western countries. So I have been conducting my own little survey, asking both expats and Dutch folk what is good and bad about Holland. Most expats, of course, are here for their careers or relationships and are grateful to have that opportunity.

But their quality of life is marred by the lack of acceptance into a social environment. At best, one Neapolitan and one Columbian asylum seeker said "it's peaceful here". An American said "the best thing about Holland is its large international community". The Dutch have mostly defined the Calvinism and the thinking inside the box (or pillar) as the worst of Holland. On the positive side are the legal, education and health care systems and the overall standard of living. "There's a lot of places in the world that are much worse".

I rate my own quality of life in Holland as all-time low. Sure, I have a roof over my head, I eat and drink every day, I own clothes and shoes and many other things that make my life fairly comfortable in the material sense. My child's not likely to be kidnapped and our chances of perishing in a natural disaster or famine are close to nil.

Those are criteria that make for contentment, though. My definition of happiness is nothing to do with material well-being and everything to do with the quality of the people around me. I've had more warmth in four minutes from a poor farmer on a bus in Mexico than I've had in four years from my next-door-neighbour. There's more laughter, music and poetry in a Brazilian street-child than in all of the rioting Dutch pupils together. I miss the dynamic of the British pub - a pin-striped barrister and an Alfred Doolittle of a painter and decorator, still in overalls, setting the world to rights over an early pint. What makes me tear my hair out in Holland is that the very people who should legislate to make us 'happier' truly haven't got a clue. Not of what it takes to build yourself a life in a foreign country, not of poverty or disability, not even of their own society. If everything's well in their own social grouping, surely other groups or individuals who struggle have only themselves to blame?

It is this near-total absence of compassion with the less well-placed, the now deeply-rooted lack of a sense of privilege – of having been born white in a wealthy Northern European country without a worry about your daily bread or the roof over your head, let alone your opportunities in life – that I detest most about the Dutch.

And what, for me, is good? I am deeply grateful for the education I had here that's stood me in good stead through many a crisis in my life. I love the vast expanse of the coastal countryside between Breskens and the border at Sluis, the lakes in Utrecht and Friesland. I think the Kröller-Müller is among the best museums in the world. Finally, the Dutch are very generous. And I'm raising funds … see www.kidsonthestreet.nl


Michaela Smith / Expatica

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2 Comments To This Article

  • Sabine posted:

    on 26th November 2014, 07:57:06 - Reply

    Surprising objectivity in article
    "It is this near-total absence of compassion with the less well-placed.... the deeply rooted lack of a sense of privilege ... that I detest most about the Dutch."
    Holland for sure is no ideal country, but judging from what I read and from what I know, the article seems a littlebit more about feelings than about facts. By the way: do the British do so "deeply sense their priviliges"?

  • KateM posted:

    on 8th November 2008, 23:27:26 - Reply

    Perhaps it is a result of living in a smaller city but I have found, in my little neighborhood, an almost enforced connection. This is admittedly partially because of one busybody but lovely older buurvrouw (the queen of twitching net curtains) and an alarming rate of death and illness among an elderly and established group that surround me but I feel more like I am living in a kibbutz. I have had more difficulty in connecting with younger people as it seems that this happens through education.

    When I think about it, the difficulty I have had in sustaining long term relationships with younger(read 30 something) Dutch people is the blunt, critical tone which seems to pervade most 'friendly' conversations. I know intellectually that this is just a cultural strategy, perhaps similar to 'weather talk' but I find that it grates in the long term and requires that I have to keep my guard up all the time. From the retiree's that surround me this type of tone seems more subdued and more appropriate. Has anyone else had a similar experience?

    I've worked with a nomadic international group for the last 10 years and would like to make friendships with people my age that will perhaps be sustainable but feel at a bit of a loss about how to do this.

    I found the pillar theory an interesting one, certainly the longer you live here the more aware you are of unofficial 'classes'. But don't suggest it to the Dutch they won't have any of it. If the boundaries are there either your focus is directed away from them (magic trick style) or they are considered self-imposed and therefor not oppressive. It is perhaps then the combination of self delusion and reasonable service provision that leads to the happiness quotient.

    Personally I feel a little safer here in Holland than I would in other countries during the banking crisis. Not blissful but not desperate, the country of luke warm bath water, I keep thinking that its probably colder outside so I don't get out but the wet is getting a little dull.