9 signs you’re still a tourist in France

9 signs you’re still acting like a tourist in France

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You may have lived in France for a while but how French have you truly become? Here are nine signs that you're still acting like a tourist in France.

1. You consider the wine aisle at the supermarket daunting

There are so many bottles to choose from! The aisle must be at least a mile long. First there are the reds, which blend ever so delicately into the rosés and finally bleach out into the whites. There are sweet wines, dry wines, and bubbly wines. Some are bottled in the vineyard itself, others aren’t. There are even South American wines now – as if it weren’t hard enough already.

At dinner parties you pretend to know what people mean when they say a Beaujolais tastes of bananas, but the truth is your only criterion to distinguish a good wine from a bad one is the price. You’ve narrowed it down now: Anything over EUR 4 a bottle and you won’t be bringing vinegar to tonight’s get together.

9 signs you’re still a tourist in France

2. You’re still shocked by bare breasts at the beach

You’ve never understood the contradictory tension between Catholicism and the human body in Romance countries. If, like me, you come from a Protestant country with Calvinist leanings, your first time on a French beach must have had you doing double takes.

3. You think blue cheese stinks

Just the thought of putting those greenish chunks of mold in your mouth makes you gag. How anyone could eat such a putrid cheese – especially when paired with bitter endive – is beyond you.

9 signs you’re still a tourist in France

4. You can’t say your phone number properly

If only the French had decided to say their phone numbers one digit at a time. Instead, they group digits into pairs, and it gets you every time. Whenever you need to give your cell number to someone, you end up standing there with a blank expression on your face as you try desperately to remember how to say 97. Quatre-vingt-dix-sept? Seriously? Four twenties and seventeen? Why on earth did they make the numbers between soixante-neuf (69) and cent (100) so damn hard?

5. You own the Amélie soundtrack

It’s rare to be able to travel without any preconceived ideas about your destination. It’s almost impossible to avoid the hype and stereotypes about Paris. We’ve all seen the pictures, we’ve all heard the songs. Besides, as if that weren’t enough, you decided to do a movie marathon of the French classics before your trip to the most romantic city in the world: Paris Je T’aime, Le Fabuleux Destin d’Amélie Poulain and À Bout de Souffle.

While all the Parisians around you are moaning, squeezing themselves into the sweaty metro, or avoiding dog turds on the sidewalks, you’re listening to your favourite soundtrack, totally oblivious to the daily grind, a glazed look of nostalgia on your face.

9 signs you’re still a tourist in France

6. You keep forgetting there are four rush hours a day

Everybody knows about the morning and evening rush hours, but in France, you have to deal with the noon and 2pm traffic, too. It’s all thanks to the famous French pause-déjeuner. The lunch break in France lasts just long enough for most people to be able to go home and eat a proper meal, instead of simply grabbing a sandwich at the nearest bakery. Needless to say, that leaves you with only a few windows of opportunity to beat the traffic, and you fall headfirst into it every single time.

7. Your ethics prevent you from eating foie gras

Shoving food down the gullet of a goose to make its liver fatty sounds like force-feeding a prisoner on hunger strike. It’s just plain wrong! Every Christmas, people roll their eyes when you refuse to even touch the foie-gras-covered blinis that get passed around the dinner table.

9 signs you’re still a tourist in France

8. You still believe Parisians don’t have an accent

In school, you were told that real French comes from Paris. When your teachers corrected your pronunciation, it was with a Parisian accent, a neutral accent.

A sure sign of advanced Frenchness is the ability to recognise not only the strong twang of southern French accents, but also to hear that Parisians don’t just say "ouais,” they say “oué-euh.” Listen to the French singer Renaud and you’ll see what I’m talking about.

9. You still believe that one day you’ll be French

So maybe you can get your hands on French citizenship, but unless you were born in France, you’ll never truly be French. One way or another, you’ll end up giving yourself away.

9 signs you’re still a tourist in France

 

Jo JacksonReprinted with permission of Matador Network.

Jo Jackson I'm a Zimbabwean, born and raised in Harare. For the last few years I've been packing in the degrees in Europe and South Africa. I've become bilingual in French and have been lucky enough to develop my skills in various exciting places, such as Goldsmiths University of London, where I graduated with an MA in Creative and Life Writing. I'm passionate about stories, no matter what shape or form they're told in. Making stuff is what gets me up in the morning. If I'm not busy writing, I'm doodling away on Photoshop, snapping pictures or editing a short movie.

Photo credits (CC-Licence): Geoffrey Fairchild (wine aisle), Bruno (Amelie), H. Alexander Talbot (foie gras), jan lewandowski (mimes).

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