Drane Markgjoni is one of Albania's last "sworn virgins" – an age-old custom in which women assume the role of a man and are accepted as such by their family and society.

"My life has been a dog's life," lamented the 87-year-old, gazing away in her modest home in Shkodra, in northern Albania, where religious paintings mix with photographs of her deceased loved ones.

Yet the octogenarian insisted she had no "regrets."

She quickly smiled again as she recalled memories of a destiny shaped by the weight of tradition and the exacting conditions imposed by the post-World War II communist regime of Enver Hoxha.

Dressed in old pants and a dark jacket, with her white hair trimmed short, Markgjoni, who never learned to read or write, tried to protect herself from the cold in her icy home.

Drane Markgjoni, 87 talks in her room in Shkodra, northern Albania, on 9 March 2009

She was born in Bajram Curri, in the north of the country. From the cradle, her marriage was arranged in line with the custom of the time.

But on her wedding day in 1949, her husband fled Albania for neighbouring Yugoslavia, a common occurrence during the difficult post-war period. Several hours later, Hoxha's police arrested all the men from his family.

Markgjoni suddenly found herself alone with the women and children of her husband's family. She said the marriage was never consummated.

And that is when she decided to "convert," adopting "the role of the man of the house" in line with the centuries-old Albanian tradition of sworn virgins.

The decision meant renouncing her gender forever and pushing aside the possibility of having another husband, bearing children and engaging in any sexual relations.

"I didn't have any other choice," she said, recalling how she was deported to the south of the country with the women and children of her fiancé’s family.

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