Single parents face unique challenges when it comes to relocation. They need dependable assistance, contingency plans, and lots of practical advice about the steps to take before, during and after the move.

Parents must evaluate the amount of help they will receive with the preparations for moving, as well as the actual moving chores.

Single parents also have the unique concern of whether their custodial rights allow them to move their children. If parents have the legal right to move their children, they also need to ask themselves questions such as:

• What is my short- and long-term financial situation?
• Will my child support be steady?
• What support systems (family and friends) will be available in the new location?
• How frequently will my children be able to see their other parent?
• How feasible will it be for my children to visit grandparents and other extended family members?
• Will my hours be flexible enough to accommodate daycare and school schedules, as well as unexpected sick days?
• How will I obtain dependable help for routine and emergency situations?
• What type of living accommodations will best suit my needs?

Single parents need support systems and friendships because they don't have the traditional family unit to depend on. So they must strive to understand as much as possible about the new community — including the type of accommodation they need.

In addition, they need to research the educational systems, social life, culture and activities of the new community. It is important that adults and children have a realistic picture of what lies ahead. And with the help of the internet, anyone now can research and visualise new homes, communities and schools before moving.

If moving at the request of an employer, they can ask for help in finding services and other needs. Some relocation management companies offer single-specific information through their websites.

Children's challenges

Whether or not children are accustomed to "sailing" through moves, there is no assurance as to how another move will affect them, especially if a divorce or personal trauma has occurred recently. Parents need to be watching for behavioural changes that signify a possible problem. These signs can include any combination of the following:

• sudden reading difficulties;
• changes in attention span or study habits;
• weight loss or gain;
• altered enthusiasm or energy levels;
• strained relationships with family and/or friends; or
• disturbed sleep patterns.

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