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You are here: Home Moving to Getting Started Marriage and divorce in Germany

18/12/2003Marriage and divorce in Germany

Love and paperwork might be a better way of describing marriage in Germany. We set down a few markers for finding your way through the bureaucratic maze to wedlock.

Falling in love is often the easy part. It’s the paper war that follows as you prepare to tie the knot, which can really a test relationship.

So, how to get married? That depends on which country you come from. German law regarding marriage partly depends on the law of your home country.
Either contact your embassy to find out what documents are necessary or go to your local Standesamt (Registrar’s Office), normally located in the local Rathaus. They can tell you what you need to do.

You can also apply for ‘Aufenthalterlaubnis’ (residence permit) with your marriage certificate.

A lot of forms have to be filled in before the happy day

If you come from a country that requires you to get a certificate of non-impediment, then the German process is fast. Apply to your country for the certificate.
If you come from a country that requires different documentation, then things can go at a much slower pace. It should be pointed that like many things in Germany marriage is very much on a state basis and the states often have different rules about what pieces of paper they want to see.   

Recognition of gay relationships

The institution of marriage in Germany has undergone something of a revolution in recent years with the arrival of so-called gay marriages, which was an attempt by the nation’s Social Democrat-Green Party coalition government to bring gay relationship into line with straight couples.

Gay marriages are officially known an ‘Eingetragenelebensgemeinschaft’.
 
However, conservative lawmakers in parliament have refused to accept provisions of the gay marriage law, so in the end it falls short of equality with straights, especially in regard to taxation.

3 reactions to this article

Pedro posted: 26-09-2008 | 2:32 PM

Hi,
Im Argentinian guy and legally married with a German guy in Munich. We have been married for almost 2 years. I have a visa till 2010 (three years visa). After 2010 I m suppossed to get my permanent residence in Germany.
My question is : If we decide to separate and live in different appartments, how does it work with my permanent residence in 2010 ? Do I loose it ? Im employeed here since I arrived. In case I change my visa from family reunification to work permit, do I still get my permanent residence in 2010 ?
Please advice me,
Appreciate you feedback,
Thanks a million,
Pedro

timothy haynie posted: 27-02-2009 | 2:04 PM

FAG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

kitching posted: 27-02-2009 | 2:06 PM

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